So, sometimes in sessions I help people with big life decisions. It’s a stressful thing, isn’t it. Our energy locks up, we shut down inside and eventually become paralyzed by indecision. Wondering what we should do, if we should get a different job, make a bold business move, leave a relationship, stay in a relationship, move to a different house, relocate to a different city, choose between two different options, etc. 

Here’s what to do:

If you don’t know what to do, don’t do anything. Wait. Let life give you more data. Let the universe give you more details.

Day by day, go by the way it feels. If the thought of it doesn’t feel good, don’t do it. If it feels constricting in your chest rather than expansive, don’t go. Doubt means ‘don’t’ every time.

On the other hand, if it feels good when you think about it, do it. If it feels liberating and open with possibilities, move in that direction. If your body comes alive thinking about it, go forward.

But until you feel it through your entire body, wait. Let life give you more information. “Don’t do anything until nothing can keep you from doing something.” Wait until nothing can stop you. Wait until the feeling is so big that there’s no way you could stop yourself from doing it. 

There’s your clarity. 

Side note: If you’re worried about whether you’ve made the right choice after you’ve already made a decision, just relax and lean into it. You’re always right where you need to be.

We think that if we make the wrong decision, things will get really bad. But it doesn’t work that way. You can’t mess up. The universe will just morph itself around whatever decision you make and will continue directing you toward what you want. It never stops. Spirit never stops guiding you. The collective components have already been assembled. Your clearest intention is in motion. The law of attraction is matching you with your truth little by little all day every day. It WILL turn out for the best. You WILL manifest what you want.


"You create your reality with the power of your mind and the Law of Attraction." ~Eckhart Tolle, Abraham Hicks, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Deepak Chopra, Louise Hay, Dr. Wayne Dyer, Bob Proctor, Rhonda Byrne, Marianne Williamson, Gregg Braden, Napoleon Hill, Gautama Buddha... and millions of teachers, authors, speakers and gurus around the world from the beginning of recorded time.

[The reason people wear crystals is because they can help the body release resistance. They also raise your vibration. Raising your vibration is the quickest way to manifestation.]

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